"Saya tak tahu kenapa ramai orang suka bercinta. Bagi saya, cinta adalah seks. Saya selalu larang adik perempuan saya untuk berkawan dengan lelaki. Sebab kalau mereka bercinta, mereka lebih cenderung untuk melakukan seks. Saya selalu marah adik saya sebab dia sosial sangat. Saya nak tanya kamu; kalau kamu suka kat perempuan itu, dan perempuan itu pun suka kamu, apa yang kamu berdua akan buat? Berkahwin,kan? Berkahwin untuk apa, tentulah untuk seks. Tapi kalau tak cukup duit nak kahwin, mereka akan lakukan pre-marital sex (seks luar nikah). Sebab itulah saya tak setuju dengan konsep bercinta. Cinta itu seks!!"
Baiklah, saya tahu apa maksud kamu. Kamu mahu katakan Love is something that is approaching Sex, bukan?
Ada sesuatu yang perlu diperbetulkan di sini.
Love is not Sex. Being in love, by saying "I love you" to someone does not mean you want to have sex with that person. Love is a gift given by God for human to appreciate the existence of others, express our feeling and careness. To protect, to look after, and to guide the person that we love.
Just like how you love your sister, it is not wrong for you to say this:
"I do appreciate you, I do care of you, I'd like to protect you all the time, I'm looking after you, with a little guidance and advises; yes, I LOVE YOU."
Did you say you want to have sex with your sister?
No. Sex is another gift given by God. People can have sex with or without love. It's all about how you take that gift.
Any takers?
(Apahal gua respon dalam BI ni? Saja. Sebab ada sesetengah orang, result Bahasa Inggeris SPM dia lagi bagus dari Bahasa Melayu.)
p/s- Kamu, saya tahu apa yang kamu fikirkan sekarang. Please take your time, I don't want to push you to say those words, okay sayang?
Ada sesuatu yang perlu diperbetulkan di sini.
Love is not Sex. Being in love, by saying "I love you" to someone does not mean you want to have sex with that person. Love is a gift given by God for human to appreciate the existence of others, express our feeling and careness. To protect, to look after, and to guide the person that we love.
Just like how you love your sister, it is not wrong for you to say this:
"I do appreciate you, I do care of you, I'd like to protect you all the time, I'm looking after you, with a little guidance and advises; yes, I LOVE YOU."
Did you say you want to have sex with your sister?
No. Sex is another gift given by God. People can have sex with or without love. It's all about how you take that gift.
Any takers?
(Apahal gua respon dalam BI ni? Saja. Sebab ada sesetengah orang, result Bahasa Inggeris SPM dia lagi bagus dari Bahasa Melayu.)
p/s- Kamu, saya tahu apa yang kamu fikirkan sekarang. Please take your time, I don't want to push you to say those words, okay sayang?
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